Okay, I’m feeling much more rational now (*stares pointedly at PAS* XDDDDD). Anyhow, whether or not Junsu and Taeyeon ARE together or NOT, I’d much prefer him with the “mother” of SNSD than anyone else. And they do make a rather cute couple YAY, Junsu found a girl shorter than him.
Honestly, Junsu, you should just chase after his own happiness. Don’t let anyone stop you, big boy. If you’re happy being with Taeyeon, then be with Taeyeon. Don’t let our petty fangirling, our petty whining, our PETTINESS in general, stop you – it’s neither OUR place nor OUR time to prevent you from attaining that happy place.
I wouldn’t wish ANY bad at all on any of the Dong Bang boys. Actually, allowing them to date, to marry, to procreate (XDDDD), to lead happy lives with their soulmates is the least I can do as a fan who’s been given the awesome opportunity to experience their music. I pity future generations if they never have the chance to be completely taken over by a group as awesome as DBSK, with members as hardworking and as humble as these boys are.
Likewise, I won’t deny that SNSD isn’t, per se, the most talented group I’ve ever come across, but they’re also VERY hardworkers. As a result, I’d LOVE for them to be happy to – to, for once, not have to think about what the fans want, but to chase after their own happiness. I know that what I’m saying isn’t completely rational, as being in the limelight forces this sort of pressure onto you – the pressure of having to maintain the image you’ve been given. And I’m aware that two popular celebrities dating COULD have the potential to ruin their respective images, as well as lose them a massive percentage of their respective fanbases. And I’m aware that neither Junsu nor Taeyeon would want to wish this on their respective groups.
BUT, as fans, we’re given so much power. We have the ability to DICTATE their careers, the power to say, “NO, you’re not worth my time”. Most importantly, we have the power to dictate their level of happiness. Celebrities lead a hard life in that: a) they’re given very little privacy, b) they’re constantly under public scrutiny and c) whatever they do is dictated by management, and whatever management orders them to do is governed by the thought of maintaining, or better yet, increasing their fanbases. As a result, pleasing one’s fans is the top priority in a celebrity’s life.
So, please, knowing that we’re that important to both Junsu and Taeyeon already, why not LET them be happy? Why complain when they show affection? Why try to tear them down? Why destroy their happiness?
If you can do ALL THAT without batting an eye, please don’t call yourselves a fan. You clearly don’t deserve that esteemed title.
In conclusion, rationality is key. And really, you’ll find that once you start thinking with a rational frame of mind, Junsu/ Jaejoong/ Yunho/ Eeteuk/ Micky/ Heechul (ROFLMAO)/ Siwon/ etc having girlfriends/fiances/wives isn’t all that terrible. Just think of it as … maintaining their respective family lines, in addition to, well, keeping their coveted genes in the gene pool. Because, honestly, I rather like the thought of mini me (a.k.a my future daughter) being able to fawn over a mini Junsu/ Jaejoong/ Yunho/ Eeteuk/ Micky/ Heechul (ROFLMAO x 2)/ Siwon/ etc.
Okay, back to studying geo. XDDDDDD